THE BETTER VERSION

We all have a dual personality or the two faces of our personality. A good side and the devil side which is somewhere hidden or suppressed.

The one side of which everyone is aware of and kind of that everyone like that side is our happy and composed side.

On the hidden side, where our composed and stable personality is no longer the same.

Alike, any imperfect and shattered clay toy they are fine granules of sand likewise the depressing side in our personality is also the outcome of long-term ignorance and dominant behavior of external factors.

We tend to avoid that side, knowing this bitter reality that it’s not ignorable.

The demon within you is the greatest harm and a lethal weapon for anyone, but before creating a mess for others it will backfire on yourself.

Everyone now and then, switching this personality is a very difficult thing, rather than suppressing we need to better understand rather than ignore.

Just need to remember that one thing, never give up on thinking positive and one day you’ll be introduced to a better version of yourself.

WHERE THE TRUE INTEREST LIES?

We are quite familiar with that situation where we start doing something, thinking we have interest in them but after a couple of days, all the interest begin to fade slowly!

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN INTEREST AND ATTRACTION?

There’s a very fine distinction between interest and attraction. Both are started on very high motivation and are enjoyable but only one of them last and may give you desired result.

It’s important to distinguish between these two before you’re going to spend your valuable time coz attraction shimmers tickly, which can easily catch your eyes and interest sometimes need to be developed and requires patience.

INTREST DERIVES FROM MOTIVATION

And the easiest way to check your true interest, if one can make some time on their busiest day. If one fails then it’s simply their attraction, not interest.

Do not get distracted by the things which don’t need your attraction.

Invest your time where the attraction is no longer any distraction and work upon the things where you’re interest lies.

Your patience will give your desired result and craft you in a new form.

EMOTIONS

The imbalancement of inner discordance can be balanced by emotions.

Being emotional doesn’t mean you are weak,

But

What we didn’t realise, these emotions make you more

STABLE, STRONGER, and SIMPLIFIED.

Stay positive, stay strong.

Love help self

As the topic itself reveals the meaning of LOVE-HELP-SELF.

‘self love is the foremost way to help onself’

As we cannot knew ourself before loving ourselves like that we are unable to help ourself before Loving onself. Before helping we should understand ourself and for that first step is to love and accept yourself as you are.

OUR OBVIOUS PROBLEMS…

In our daily lives, we faces numerous problems which despairs our confidence and profoundly went on increasing unless a stage occur where we have no way to stand with ourself. Thinking like Nope! I can’t do it; I think I’m not made for this and thousands of excuses which I also make after not hitting my target. It’s not just in my case now is become human tendency to blame the situation then to face our failure because facing ourself requires lots of courage.

OVERCOME YOUR FEAR

As it’s onerous to change our nature but altering in them can definitely help to overcome our problems.

The best solution to our problem is to build trust in oneself and that ultimately helps to face unwanted situations. Yupp it is easy to say then to make it done. Building trust requires confidence, patience and love in oneself.

LOVE – love is not only the most accepted way but it can help to overcome any type of fear and in any unfortunate situation. PATIENCE – patience is the key to sucess. It’s easy to give up then to have patience. It help to feel the real taste of sucess. CONFIDENCE – Confidence is the another key to sucess. It makes a positive attitude and trust in oneself. Self trust help you to be confident about your decision and in yourself.

At last let me remind you to love yourself and respect your decision. As it is best way to negate unwelcomed situation and it will ultimately help you to make better version of yourself.

BELEIVE AND COMPARISON

Your belief leads you to outshine which refrains you from being scattered.

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF BEFORE COMPARING WITH OTHERS

BECAUSE

COMPARING WILL LEAVE YOU MISERABLE AND BELIEF WILL HELP YOU FROM BEING MISERABLE.

VALUE YOUR PRESENT

Present! is a time we tend to think about the future or we think about our past.

I wondered why people think that much about what has happened in their past knowing after that wouldn’t change it in any way. It may be difficult, it keeps drawing one’s attention.

Alike in the past, we keep wondering about our future.

Living in the present means to live the moment without worrying about what had happened before or what will happen next moment.

Sometimes, we worry much about our upcoming future that leads to another level of discomfort in the present situation.

There’s no need to punish ourselves for what we can not change and when we didn’t know what our future holds for us.

Live in the present may create a positive big difference for your future.

Sometimes, it sucks if we are unnecessarily worrying about anything and if we look back, we have nothing but had lost those precious days which may add a great memory to our life.

Every moment holds a very beautiful, unforgettable memory and abundance of happiness. Living in present but not much worrying about the future have the power to build progress in one’s life.

That’s why put your efforts to glorify your present and let your dream to be a part of your victory at the end.

BE TRUE TO YOURSELF

WE MAY BETTER UNDERSTAND FROM OUR OWN REFLECTION.

One of the difficult situation of life lies in the duality of character in an individual .

This duality comprises of the character firstly, which is dealing with the entire world to show a fake identity and another one lies within ourself dissatisfy and disappointed after owing these fake identity.

The world around us is as true as, we used to be with ourselves. Most of the time, we are not true to ourselves.

As quoted

All THE GLITTERS ARE NOT GOLD.

The surroundings of ourselves have so many distractions that cannot be neglected at any cost. These distractions and the people around us play a vital role to frame a fake personality of ourselves.

It’s a very different experience to play two distinct characters at one time. Sometimes, it worsens the situation, not for that particular individual but also brings toxicity in any relationship.

HOW TO NEGLECT THESE TRAITS?

We don’t have to change ourselves for others when we have so many good points to act .

Maintain individuality, it’s very important to maintain individuality. The duality in nature may hamper our growth and can create severe problems for ourselves.

Avoid negative people and places, these people are in a very dominant state. They can’t be easily neglected but listen to yourself will help to avoid these distractions.

SO AT LAST,

Love yourself and your individuality, because your identity is yours. No matter millions are there having some common ground, or maybe can share some common thoughts but every person is unique in itself. The day we began to love ourselves nature will assist us to become a very fine personality.

TIME TO RECOGNIZE YOURSELF

Sometimes it feels incomplete even after achieving our dreams for which we were working diligently.

Why did we end up choosing the path what others want ??

These are the some common situations faced by everyone in every aspects of life.

The decisions which were not taken consiously but in the influence of some external factor end up giving these type of results. We tend to choose that so called path which seems to be fascinating but it didn’t end up giving the satisfaction of what we were looking off.

As a human, we easily get distracted by our so called influencer. We think life has only one path and we confined ourself upto that one path.

If we have to choose the right path,it’s us who have to take the first step and in the right direction.

HOW WE CAN CHOOSE THE RIGHT DIRECTION WHICH ENDS UP GIVING DESIRED SATISFACTION ??

  • Before anything, we need to know ourselves, who we are, what we want from ourself and what is the strongest desire in our heart ( without getting distracted by our so called influencer ).
  • LISTEN TO EVERYONE,DO WHAT YOU WANT.To make a right decision we need to listen everyone but,the only way to create DIFFERENCE is by doing what you want.
  • Maybe, it can hurt the sentiments of other as you are doing your desired work but believe in yourself they will end up accepting you and your work.

A slight change can create a huge difference, choose it consiously and wisely.

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A LESSON FROM SUFFERING

Mental illness, anxiety, sadness are the most prevalent things we are surrounded by these days. As a human we have to deal with mischievous and sadness anyhow. These are the situation oftenly faced by all of us.

But if we think what is suffering and what leads to suffer so much? We found nothing but it’s because we drag ourself into that situation. We suffer because of us. Sometimes we expect more than we are capable of or with something.

Suffering is a something universal have to face by everyone and have their own story of suffering. Nowadays people can suffer with any cause in the world, they don’t have to be lose something for that.

Sadhguru once quoted that

“If you are above the intellect you cannot suffer because you are Buddha and if you are below you cannot suffer but if you are in intellect no one can stop suffering.”

It’s human tendency to expect things before it happen. To avoid suffering one has to went beyond intellect. It’ll become possible only when we will start living without expecting. It will add a new chapter in every life with a better and a transformed personality.

HAPPINESS LIES IN ABUNDANCE

Happiness lies in the silence of the beauty

Sometimes we are done with managing and doing the stuff way it should be done. When it’s far away to handle pressure and stuck in a situation where we need some inspiration to continue further.

That inspiration lies within ourself given the name of HAPPINESS.

Happiness is the inner feeling to demonstrate the victory over the things juggling inside ourself.

Happiness lies in even smallest thing. In every human being happiness is in abundance form but the problems frames itself over happines.

Feel the abundance of happiness in nature

DESIRE TO BE HAPPY

Someone has quoted that

When you want something all the universe conspire you to achieve it

This quote indicates the value of desire. A little known desire will be completed when we are fully dedicated to them.

Desire to be happy is one the sweetest desire to be own by a person. This desire need to be followed sincerely. A little happiness may change the life of depressed, low, and rejected into a joyous, cheerful and a happy personality.

At last, the most powerful key to live a happy life is to change the perspective to change in ourself. A slight change in our perspective to watch the world will definitely change our world.

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